Generation Ghost

Okay I don’t understand, please help me out. 

I don’t know what it is about our generation, or what it is about me for that matter, but I seem to be getting ghosted left right and center. 


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Ghosting noun. 

The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication. ” 

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So I’m sitting here with a rather large glass of rosé in my hand wondering where it all went wrong. I haven’t heard from this guy in a week after almost three solid months of dating. That’s it, poof he’s disappeared. I’ve called twice and texted once over the last week and nothing has been returned. And you can’t tell me that’s being too needy or clingy because I just won’t accept it. 

You know, maybe he died or moved to Africa? 

Joke aside I just don’t understand how you can get close to somebody and care for them and then just disappear without a whisper. What’s more, it wasn’t like this was a casual fling. He always planned a future with me in it. Or maybe that was just bullshit to get me into bed. Regardless, does nobody have any  concern for anyone’s feelings anymore? 

How do you get over somebody ghosting you? Just let it be and move on? That’s the only thing I can think of. But then there’s no answers and there’s no closure. 

I guess I always live by the motto that everything happens for a reason. So that means I’ll just have to trust the world that something better is coming my way. 

Till next time 

xo 

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